Building a godly dating relationship
What kind of time should couples spend together in the early stages of a relationship?
The answer turns on what you are trying to find out about this person at this stage of things.
There are biblical and unbiblical reasons for a man to initiate with a woman, and there are biblical and unbiblical reasons for turning a man down.
In the end, there is no formula and no rote substitute for intellectually honest Christians seeking to care well for one another and to faithfully apply Scripture to infinitely varied relational circumstances.
So with all that said, let’s consider how the principle of caring for one another well in the early stages of a relationship might look.
If you feel that you are not initially attracted to a man who initiates with you, OK — but at least ask yourself why that is.
Are you considering biblical characteristics in that decision?