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About Elen Turner Elen Turner is a writer and editor with one foot in Nepal and another in New Zealand.
As well as being Pink Pangea’s editor, Elen regularly writes about Nepal and New Zealand (among other places) for a variety of publications.
This issue isn’t unique to people from different cultures.
When I asked my Nepali boyfriend if there was anything I needed to know about how to behave in his village, he thought for a few moments. Village people don’t understand.” That seems easy enough to me!
Anyone’s family has the potential to be difficult, even if you are from the same culture or country.
Certainly, cultural and language differences can compound problems and lead to misunderstandings, but they don’t always. Yes, there are unscrupulous people out there who see marriage as a path to living in a different, often more-developed, country. How to time a hot shower around the power-cut schedule.
(For the record, my Nepali boyfriend is an exceptionally good cook, he prepares multi-dish feasts with whatever happens to be in the fridge, and always cleans up after himself).
I believe a lot of these comments are also applicable to women dating men from other non-Western, developing countries. But I guarantee that a proportion of men from every country are guilty of this. My dad in New Zealand was justifiably offended when, after my mum’s death, his colleagues implied that he would be incapable of feeding himself without resorting to takeaways.
Cultural differences don’t always translate into cultural problems, and if they do, I’ll face them when they occur rather than be put off from the beginning. It’s not a component of society where I come from, and even if it was, I’m certain I’d disapprove of it.
An Indian friend warned me that my Nepali boyfriend may not be from the ‘right’ caste. When it comes to religion, as long as he isn’t fanatical and doesn’t try to impose anything on me, he can get on with it. ‘That’, I presume, is taking the risk of being with someone from a different culture, with all the difficulties and rewards that go along with it.
I had been offered cheap holidays there in the past but had declined.
The day after we arrived my Mum was downstairs in reception when she was approached by a young man who worked in the hotel, but not for the hotel.
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